Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Ellie's Eyes

We are so in love with Ellie's beautiful eyes - I hope they turn out to be the same shade as her Daddy's! This was pretty funny because she does not like her hat...or maybe the lights? :) I know I know...she was upset, but still really cute! She's more awake these days which is fun and tiring all at the same time. Still no bowel movement today, so Dr.Duff said a suppository was needed. So far it's helped...a little. We've also been cleaning our apartment more to make room for Ellie's stuff! And..we even decorated a section of a wall for her Farm Animal themed nursery (that really won't exist fully until after we move in May!) Enjoy the pictures! We're still trying to get back into the swing of things!

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

More Lessons

Well, today was a tough day for the Gramkows...no worries...Ellie is doing great! She's averaging about 45 mL per feeding. Mom is busy trying to get homework caught up, meeting with professors this week, and went back to class tonight for the first time since Miss. Ellie's arrival. However, in my efforts in getting things planned for next semester, I found out today that my practicum placement (basically an internship that you have for my degree program) fell through for next semester - so I'm back searching. Ben also found out that he did not get the job at Garmin. We're pretty bummed about that - we really want to be in Kansas City! But...there are other engineering firms in Kansas City, now Ben just has to find them. We're still learning more lessons about life and God's plan that he has for us. So, we're not sure what to do next. BUT...if anything that we've learned through our journey with Ellie's early arrival, it's that we must take one day at a time - and apparently that lesson is continuing even though we're home! Thanks for your prayers for Ben and his interviews, but obviously God wants us in a different place....or maybe there's something bigger and better out there that we don't even know about yet! Prayers for us as we get back into school - Ben's been amazing at caring for Ellie and letting me get things figured out "plan of action" wise for homework this week, and next week it's his turn!

Monday, November 17, 2008

Ellie's First Doctor's Visit in Manhattan

Well, today was a shock with parenthood yet again - seriously, it's true - you just can't get out the door when you want! After frantically packing the diaper bag and getting Miss. Ellie all situated in her carseat and monitor in hand...we made it to Dr.Duff's office for our first appointment. And, since you're all used to reading Ellie's weight at 9 p.m., we thought we'd keep you in suspense until now about what she weighed today! Drum roll please....6 lbs. 9.5 oz.! Yippee! She gained weight since we came home! Wahoo! I was a tad worried. She was 6 lbs. 7.2 oz. when we brought her home from Stormont. Her length measured at 19 1/2, but Ben thinks the nurse read the tape wrong (of course he does). He thinks it was more like 19 7/8 inches! So technically she shrunk since she came home from the hospital. Her head circumference was the same at 34 cm. It was a bit depressing seeing that percentiles are just never going to measure up for Ellie since she's a preemie. So yeah, all her stats were below the 3% mark. Oh well! I bet she'd be right up there compared to other preemies her gestational age! We really like Dr.Duff. He said he's known Ellen for a while and has enjoyed working with her (when she was a flight nurse too) and he practiced in Mason City, IA for a few years. Who knew...small world! He seemed very up to date (since he had also gotten report via phone from Ellen) with Ellie's story and medical history. He said he was really pleased with her progress. He said her head looked wonderful for her age, her umbilical hernia still looked ok, and he didn't hear a heart murmur! Her overall check went well. He said he would like us to come in weekly for two weeks, just to make sure she's still gaining weight. He also recommended us lowering her feeding duration to 20-25 minutes instead of 30 minutes. So about the pooping issue or lack thereof...we have to call him if no poop by Wednesday. I'm thinking he'll request a suppository, especially since the rectal temp doesn't really work for the little one. He did say he's not too concerned because her bowel sounds are active and her stools aren't hard. So he said it's not an issue of constipation, it's more an issue of infrequency...and some babies are just like that. He was pleased to hear that we haven't had any A's and B's with the home monitor going off. I asked when we'd come back to see him and he said at her 4 month check (so in 2 months) and then we'd re-evaluate the caffeine and monitor business then. I told him that our prescription for caffeine was only for a month, (kind of hinting that maybe it'd be nice to not have the monitor more than a month) and he said to call when the end of the prescription comes. Obviously it's too early to tell if she can get off the caffeine...and we know that! We discussed her immunizations and she got more shots today. He said that the first RSV preventing (synagis) shot she got at Stormont would decrease her chances of getting it by 50%. She'll get a synagis shot every 28 days until cold/flu season is done (April). They'll have a home health nurse come and administer it. He also said they have the medicine shipped to our front door...what service! She got the second Hep B vaccine and then also the rotavirus. She didn't like that too well and has been a tad fussy (again understandable). We will be visiting Dr.Duff at 4 months, 6 months, 9 months, and 12 months...and then if needed obviously. We then hurried over to Melanie, the lactation consultant at Mercy Hospital, and met with her and tried nursing again. I think Ellie had performance anxiety...she only ate 18 mL (weighing her before and after). No, we decided that it was a big day for her and she was tired from the Dr. visit and handling and then those not so fun shots! So we are going to try again on Friday this week! Her feedings the rest of the day have been pretty consistant with 50ish mLs...Ellen would be proud! :) Until next time...Team Gramkow signing off!